CARPE DIEM

 

Today...is an opportunity

    rosprynn © 2005

 

Today before my first coffee I was crying.  I woke to the news of the bombings in London. Some of you already know I have many family and friends still in London.  I haven't managed to talk with any of them. But...but as I listen to the calls from the politicians for "resolve in fighting the terrorists", and "standing firm", I wonder if anybody realizes what a golden opportunity we ALL have been given today.

 

You have to know my heart breaks for all those closely affected by today's events.  Some people, on their way to work, will never make it home to their families.  The truth of the matter is, we are ALL diminished by these acts, in the same way I believe we are all responsible for the murders done around the world, in our names. Since the original family on earth, man seems to have decided that taking up arms against our fellow man, is the way to resolve conflicts. 

 

Have we learned nothing? Surely by now all of us have seen that killing each other doesn't work.  The events in London were inevitable given how the people of Iraq have lived with their own 'London' every day for far too long now. I was talking to an American friend this morning.  A woman I love dearly, and one who supports her President in his 'war on terrorism'.  I told her I pray daily that her beloved sons never have to go to Iraq waving the US flag as their job description encompasses the killing of other mothers' sons.

 

I come from a long line of war 'heroes', but I have also seen the dark side of what war and conflict does to the human family.  As I sit here I can look upon a framed picture I have of one of my forefathers who was highly decorated for his efforts on behalf of the Union Jack, but I can tell you for sure that no medal compensates for the burden a soldier carries, even if he returns the hero.  I was married to a Vietnam war hero, and I saw first hand the weight he carried on a daily basis. I don't know any Iraqi mothers personally, but even as their sons and daughters die for 'the cause', I KNOW, as every mother does, the agony they breathe every day.

 

And it doesn't have to be this way.  Amidst the chaos on the streets of London today, one woman said, " Why do we have to fight like this?  Why can't we speak?"  Seems to me the time for killing each other is OVER.  Today, yes this very day, I wonder if among all the rhetoric and beating of chests in macho fashion, there is one brave politician who will hear what that woman said.  I have to believe that in amongst all the insane noise demanding retribution, the human family can speak together, find a common ground, and have peace break out.

 

I am one of the original hippies, and while I may have set aside most of the trappings of that long ago life, the underpinnings of those times have stayed with me. I still believe that if we all stood together, and demanded our politicians "speak...not fight", peace COULD break out.  Today, we are given yet another chance.  Are we going to waste it?